Sunday, October 01, 2006

Teenage relationships?

My view on teenage relationships.
A simple NO.

Teenagers (young adults as some of them would like to term it) undergo a period in their life known as puberty. Hormones are raging, actions are usually impulsive, and they are searching for their own identities.

Basically, whatever you do, whatever you say to your partner in a relationhip at such a young age, IT'S MOSTLY an act.
A few years down the road, you turn to your partner and you think to yourself. "Why am I together with him/her? Is this what I wanted in the first place?"
You realise that you have nothing much to gain from this relationship that you have desired so badly for.

This is something called 'void love' and 'face value' according to Hansel.


Some thoughts about relationships for teenagers.
  • Think about it, is face value what you want eventually.
  • If you know what true love is. GO ahead! It's great to share love. But always be careful. You might never know what the other person is thinking.
  • Teenage relationships are damaging to the heart. One heartache leads on to another. Your first breakup will spur you on to get into a new relationship to mend that broken-ness. Think again, will this new relationship cause you to have another heartbreak? If the answer is most likely yes, WAIT, because God always has a plan for you. You WILL meet that guy/girl that was made for you. When these relationships have caused you to be broken, by the time you are a working adult.. You would be such a broken man/woman. Don't risk it.
  • Most married couples stay together longer if they've had only a few relationships before that (there are always exceptions). Notice the increasing trend of early marriages and divorces seen in Singapore these past years? Do put a stop to it!

STAND UP!
Voice your views. It's a right every one of us is entitled to!
If you feel sex, alcoholism, and drugs is the way to go. Have it your way. It's a free world.
Besides, all these are just bad habits, it doesn't define a person. The person might not necessarily be bad now isn't it?

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